A hand is stretching along a table to get a cell phone, unlocking the keypad, pressing contacts button and then start diving among hundreds of names you don't even remember for who's the most of these numbers or even when or where did you meet these people!?
All of that in order to pick up a specific name for someone you usually deal with to dial, subsequently the conversation begins.
All I wanted to say that intimacy & companionship could be created between the instructor and all the audience after some lecture you attended somewhere which took only 3 hours, in the other hand you might think that you have so many friends from the college which took 4 YEARS from your life, but after it has been finished you'll wake up from your faint to realize that you could successfully gain only 3 LOYAL friends!!!!
The surprise is to be that someone you usually deal with is someone from those you met by chance in a cultural event or something, whereas the most of your - fake friends - from the college are no more than anonymous names in your cell phone.
And that’s why we sometimes feel when we meet someone for the first time ever like we know this person for along and long time ago and start dealing with him or her very friendly and in the other hand we sometimes feel when we deal with some people for YEARS like we still consider them strangers.
The core of this article is this sentence: (Be nice with everybody, but choose your friends very carefully), so it doesn't matter for how long do you know this person! The only thing that matters in this case "Is that person loyal to you or not?"
Mohamed ABd El Moamen Mostafa
Tuesday 22/Febraury/2011